Reality Check

Stilfer's Mom had a reality check on the weekend. And we all know she has been on the hunt for a new squeeze. Now, I have never been in a rush to find another significant other very fast. Come on, it is 4:1 here in the Border Town. What's the rush.

Being married at 19, I never really had a chance to see who I really was and now in my 30's and divorced, (eventhough I now have Legs), I am just finding out how I work and how I tick. What I will put up with and what I won't. It has been an interesting journey.

Stifler's Mom wants a relationship. Don't rush it, I say. It will find you. When a person rushes something like a relationship for instance, it makes them appear desperate, insecure. I know I am insecure about certain things but that's what my friends are for...to get me back up and running.

Finding friends to hang with almost runs along the same lines. Let them come to you. They were here first.....I am pondering here....maybe I should write a book on this.

Anyway...this dude that Stifler's Mom liked, did something really, really stupid the second time she met him. He was drunk. Not just a little drunk, but slobbering drunk. That is not attractive! Especially on the second meet. So drunk that he was hanging on me! That went over well....I don't like people in my personal bubble period, let alone someone who is drunk and this was the first time I met him!

Nuff said...